|Posted by sean berry on February 14, 2011 at 8:41 PM|
I will admit something very personal to everyone; I have always wanted to be good looking. I don’t think this is uncommon and I’m sure there are many people out there who feel the same way, but for most of my life, I have stuck out like a sore thumb. Now before I make this seem like a self-pitying rant, I must say I am cool with who I am now. Though I would still very much enjoy being a better looking guy, I have learned over the years that it is not the most important thing in the world.
You always hear that birds of a feather flock together,well while that saying does hold true sometimes, most the time, it is way off basis of what we call reality. You don’t need to be a great looking guy to date a great looking girl, because it’s not like beauty is color and pattern coded and only certain people can go together. Beauty goes far beyond the skin and what we consider beautiful can involve many aspects of who a person is such as their personality as well as the placement of their facial bones and the size of their chest.
There is a science to beauty often times though, as we generally consider faces that are symmetrical to be more attractive and obviously in art we have a high reverence for those that can accurately capture how something looks with a level of detail that gives reality a run for its money. Anything can be beautiful because it’s not simply about looks but how something makes you feel. When you see something beautiful it is a rush of stimulation: your eyes open wider and your nostrils flair while you are transfixed on a sight which by its very nature captivates.
Beauty is great because it is all around us. The articulate puffiness of the clouds, the magnificent glow of the setting sun, the apple-like shape of a beautiful woman’s ass, or sometimes the swirl of cream in your coffee can be beautiful, it’s as much your own mood that determines the beauty you see. When you learn more about something, you may find the ideas beautiful because they appeal to you, they make you yearn for more like we do for a woman we find beautiful. Are we all superficial for being attracted to beauty?
It’s more a matter of survival then it is simply people being picky. While we as a race like to think of ourselves as sophisticated, we are still animals and when it comes to mating, most creatures are concerned with the genetic compatibility of their mate to ensure the survival of their species. Beauty can usually tell us if someone is healthy, which automatically makes them desirable on a very primal level because they are seemingly capable of bearing children. Even if someone is not what is traditionally considered beautiful, there is always a similar group of people that are attracted to these people. For every type of look a person can have, there is a person that dig that look out there, now whether or not their personalities are compatible is a matter all its own. There is no standard for beauty because it’s always different strokes for different folks.
I don’t have a type when it comes to women because I think there are so many different types of beautiful women out there that each has their own little personal flair. I can’t imagine a world where beauty didn’t exist and I think you can sometimes take for granted the beauty of things around you. Just the way simple things work sometimes is beautiful or the way circumstance seems to act as fate sometimes is beautiful. We don’t see beauty simply because it exists,we see it because we need it to and we see it because we are always looking,always evaluating, always open to the world around us and how it makes us feel.