|Posted by sean berry on October 8, 2010 at 8:27 AM|
Common courtesy. A term I will dub the double C. I was recently privy to the lack of it in the dating world. Apparently people no longer have closure conversations. The lack of nobility in people has weakened to the point of collapse. My take on it is technology mixed with egoism. It’s what’s best for me, and if it doesn’t suit you, then fuck you. I don’t give a shit if you like it or not. It’s my way or the highway and I don’t have to explain a shit to you Lucy.
Maybe I misread the latest dating code of phase out. The last conversation that feels kinda awkward and forced and ends with well I gotta run, bye is apparently the I don’t want to see you anymore. I mean it’s obvious that you don’t because you have failed to return my calls, or called on your own behalf. And right there I sound like obsessed bitch. Maybe, but not the case on this one. The obsession now is why did you just quit talking to me.
Do I not deserve an explanation or a FUCK YOU send off of some sort? I mean bring it bro. I’ve heard it all. Trust me. My first real sustainable relationship ended with the realization that my boyfriend was gay. You got it. GAY and PROUD. I love it now, but at the time, it was devastating.Wow, I must have really sucked in bed. What the hell.
Moving on, I’ve been left for drugs, caught cheaters, dated a pedophile (unknowingly) and the big kicker, my last love, well he got married to someone else. “Oh I didn’t realize you were seeing anyone.” Ya, so please, an explanation would be awesome. It would set my mind at ease. At least all the assholes in my past were decent enough to face me and have a final fuck you send off. Where’s my fucking send off. Instead I get silence. Nice. Thanks. I really appreciate how you so gracefully bowed out.
Is it too much to ask? The unknowing is insatiable. TheDouble C has left the building. No longer is it necessary to explain ones actions. Is this a trend or just an asshole?
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